27 December 2008
04 December 2008
What I am most thankful for
A few years ago, I had the awesome pleasure of visiting Bali Indonesia during the fall season. It was spectacular. On one of the days I was there, it started raining. A slight drizzle quickly turned into sheets of Godzilla size droplets. The streets were flooded within minutes, so much so that I was forced to seek shelter in a small salon to enjoy my first and last third world mani and pedi. Until that day, I had yet to appreciate that the storm drainage system of Los Angeles is so inconspicuously functional. And for that, I am most thankful.
04 November 2008
My friends: the physicist and the urban planner
"Hey man, you look really hot in your profile picture. Are you open to dating? I have some friends who want to go out with you. What kind of car do you drive again?"
"There is no way you take the bus in LA. That's only for immigrants and mental patients."
"Remember that time you were listening to the Smiths and then you started crying and I asked you what was wrong and you said you wished you were Mexican? That was cool."
"Remember that time we were driving late at night and you were talking about karate and then you hit a dog and I was going to bury it but you said "No! Wait!" and you put it in a bag and took it home? What ever happened to that dead dog?"
"You're a Duke now? Did you marry a duchess? Pimp."
15 October 2008
I thought it would change my life
I bought an iPhone yesterday and now I am officially one of those people who thinks they cannot be away from the world for more than a few nanoseconds. Always connected, always needed, always needing.
In the twelve hours that I have been in possession of my month early birthday present to me, the thing has been emitting strange sounds. This means that I need to read the owner's manual, or pester someone, to program the thing to stop doing this.
Anyone? Please make it stop. Brother James?
Brother James
Nowadays, we rarely go out in one car. In fact, we may never do it again since my immediate family is slowly expanding and segmenting into sub-families of their own. And even if we were still required to sit in one car, I now wish that my parents had had a minivan full of children. As an adult child, I recognize that more siblings mean more people to share the responsibilities of being a family member. And believe you me, it's not an easy thing being a member of this family.
Over a month ago, I met a tall, white like Jewish egg bread, young electrical engineer named James; he was one of my brother's groomsmen. During the course of two consecutive weekends, the first in Lousiana and the latter in Los Angeles, I noticed that he has a compulsion for thoroughly reading instruction manuals and picks up after himself without being prompted. James also happens to speak Mandarin fluently and understands Chinese cultural nuances.
My immediate and extended family both really like James. He effortlessly integrated into our conversations and activities as if we had known him for decades. So, at one point during the craziness of the wedding, we decided to adopt him as one of our own. And really, I could not be happier about having another sibling. James is the kind of brother you would happily squeeze yourself in the backseat of a regular size sedan for. That is how much sibling perfection he is.
Welcome to the familia, Brother James.
13 October 2008
A gourmand's tour of Los Angeles
His description sounds like a tiny sliver of heaven to me, most probably because I am such a lover of food. No one gets between me and my food.
So, I am looking for suggestions to these sorts of establishments. I really am talking about extraordinary--The Donut Man of donuts, the Luscious Dumplings of beef noodle soup, the Bulgarini of gelato, the Sushi Masu of toro tuna, the Caffe Luxxe of coffee, the Kings Hawaiian of chocolate chiffon cake, the A&J Restaurant of green onion pancake, the Fosselman's of ice cream.
Please help. :-)
05 October 2008
Not working for God
ME: why can't they? b/c of the laws? or b/c they shouldn't?
DS: haha yea laws of course dork. i dont work for god
ME: LOL
DS: haha u bring out the best in me
01 October 2008
Pillow Talk
ME: Your knees hurt because you didn't sleep correctly?
BH: Yeah. I could not find my body pillow.
ME: Oh. You slept on your side?
BH. Yes.
ME: Ah. I need to buy a boyfriend pillow.
BH. Aren't they the best? They make you feel safe AND they don't breathe on you.
ME: Ah, yes. That is exactly it.
22 September 2008
Let me set the scene
She started asking me about how I was doing, how things between my boyfriend and I were, and how the job was going. I told her that I was well, my boyfriend and I had broken up and that the job was a job. We discussed each of these topics a bit more before I started telling her how miserable the LSAT and the idea of law school was making me.
Then, it happened. For the first time in my tween life, an adult, a successful ambitious level headed adult, told me that it is okay to not attend graduate school until I felt good and ready, until I was sure, really really sure. That is basically how this "plan" started to unravel. I consulted two of my committee members and after revealing my thoughts about the entire matter, they conceded that law school was probably not for me.
I have to say, in the past two weeks, I have found myself more and more ridiculously happy. Although its not entirely due to my recent acceptance of the fact that I really have little desire to become an attorney, I am reveling in my happier disposition and new found abundance of free time. In this short time, I have baked a cheesecake, caught three sunsets, visited a museum exhibit, started two new books and watched a live college football game. Not going to law school is great. ;)
Please do not worry about me. I do have a plan. And thankfully, I still have my handful of committee members who are quietly anticipating the perfect moment to unleash their blow torch lighters right underneath my ass.
21 September 2008
A rant about lifestyle choices
14 September 2008
Five years in the making (part two)
The odd thing about this whole undertaking is that I am not particularly a big fan of this dessert. Over five years ago, I became fascinated with the process after sharing a slice of Carnegie Deli's famous cheesecake while vacationing in New York. It was super rich and super delicious. I enjoyed it so much I thought about having some shipped out to California when I had a craving a few months later. I decided against it since the cost was a bit outrageous. So, a friend of mine gave me a top of the line springform pan and Carnegie Deli's cheesecake recipe for my 21st birthday. Five years later, with a lower fat recipe in hand, I finally closed the book on this one.
10 September 2008
Five years in the making
I am a baking elitist.
Every few months, I become obsessed with the idea of baking a certain item. Last Christmas, it was molasses cookies. This particular recipe necessitated so much prep work that by the end of it all, I was in need of a massage to remove the kink that had formed in my back. The results were worth it.
There are few things I research more diligently than recipes. I comb through reviews. I watch videos of preparation. I basically become obsessed until I reach some sort of self-prescribed near perfection.
Tomorrow night, I embark on one of my baking extravaganzas. I will not say what exactly I am making, only that it is something I have put on the back burner for the past five years. So, come 8 pm anyone within a fork's reach is welcome to sample my latest creation.
I am also accepting suggestions for the subject of my next baked goods adventure. :)
09 September 2008
What would the neighbors think?
Oh how much growing up Chinese has shaped my thinking.
04 September 2008
Lighters on Loan
The LSAT is exactly 30 days away. I am having much difficulty with concentrating. My practice exam scores are not what I want them to be. BUT, as a dear friend once reminded me, "Do or do not. There is no try."
30 days. No blog entries. No cell phone. It is just me and my lucky pencil LSATing 35 minutes at a time.
01 September 2008
Ordinary
Every morning since Saturday, I have awoken thinking that maybe today is the day where McCain comes out and says "just kidding, Mitt Romney is really who I have picked."
Sarah Palin? Huh? Wife of a steelworker union member? Former beauty pageant queen? 44 year old mother of five, soon to be grandmother of one? I would like to hear the argument of any person who could sincerely tell me that they believe that McCain would still have picked her if she was a he. And quite honestly, I would pity the fellow.
Who cares if she has a lot in common with the average American? Average should not be what leads this country. How is it that people forget that phenomonal leaders are well, phenomonal?
Personally, extraordinary is what I am after, and Palin is just NOT that.
28 August 2008
On names and Italian restaurant patrons
This reminded me of a dinner at an Italian restaurant a few months ago where a patron from an adjacent party began reciting Sonnet 116 while we were waiting for our entrees. It was so random, yet so perfect. My dinner date and I applauded when he had finished. It is, after all, one of my favorites among his work.
Shakespeare's Sonnet 116
Let me not to the marriage of true minds
Admit impediments. Love is not love
Which alters when it alteration finds,
Or bends with the remover to remove:
O no! it is an ever-fixed mark
That looks on tempests and is never shaken;
It is the star to every wandering bark,
Whose worth's unknown, although his height be taken.
Love's not Time's fool, though rosy lips and cheeks
Within his bending sickle's compass come:
Love alters not with his brief hours and weeks,
But bears it out even to the edge of doom.
If this be error and upon me proved,
I never writ, nor no man ever loved.
27 August 2008
A quote from earlier tonight
24 August 2008
Questions unanswered
22 August 2008
In light of my brother's being newly married
Reading that two months ago, made me think and think and think some more.
21 August 2008
Early morning pillow talk
jie: What happened?
me: An ugly married guy that I knew kept asking me to go out with him.
jie: That's not a dream. That is every day at work for me.
me: Oh, that's horrible.
18 August 2008
17 August 2008
On weddings and capitalism
I really do not understand why weddings have become such grandiose events. In any other instance, do people host large gatherings, spending considerable sums of money, to mark the beginning of years of hard work and compromise? Is it really that special to have "found someone?"
I wonder then if the wedding tradition has been entirely over taken by an elaborate marketing scheme designed and refined by the best and brightest of this capitalist society. Rather, perhaps these grand scale celebrations are a result of young women's last stitch efforts to have one final party all about them. Really, the speculation could continue forever. And as with most things, I suppose it is likely a combination of many factors.
A majority of this phenomenon is likely to be driven by a need to keep up (or perhaps even outrun) the Joneses. And capitalism would fail to be capitalistic if companies neglected to fill a demand in the market.
Even so, I am really at my wits end with this process. As much as I would like to sit on my high horse and forever swear off grand celebrations with 350 of my bestest friends, I cannot say with absolute confidence that I too will not fall victim to the sensation. Honestly, I believe I am a bit too cynical and a lot too practical for fairy tale weddings. And maybe, just maybe, this is why there is so many ruffled feathers the week before my brother's tri-city "I Do's."
16 August 2008
Bullshit
14 August 2008
Stuff
"Actually this is just a place for my stuff, ya know? That's all, a little place for my stuff. That's all I want, that's all you need in life, is a little place for your stuff, ya know? I can see it on your table, everybody's got a little place for their stuff. This is my stuff, that's your stuff, that'll be his stuff over there. That's all you need in life, a little place for your stuff. That's all your house is: a place to keep your stuff. If you didn't have so much stuff, you wouldn't need a house. You could just walk around all the time. A house is just a pile of stuff with a cover on it. You can see that when you're taking off in an airplane. You look down, you see everybody's got a little pile of stuff. All the little piles of stuff. And when you leave your house, you gotta lock it up. Wouldn't want somebody to come by and take some of your stuff. They always take the good stuff. They never bother with that crap you're saving. All they want is the shiny stuff. That's what your house is, a place to keep your stuff while you go out and get . . . more stuff! Sometimes you gotta move, gotta get a bigger house. Why? No room for your stuff anymore." - George Carlin
12 August 2008
Switching gears
There still remains numerous details that have yet to be finalized with the Los Angeles reception--cakes to be tasted, floral arrangements to be approved, wedding favors to be designed. It is probably a good thing we are only expecting some 70 people to attend.
For now though, my main objectives for the next ten days are first to tan my legs and second to tone my arms. It is unfortunate that much of the grooming that will ensue prior to next Wednesday will feel like more of a chore than a treat. I always grow resentful before special occasions because it becomes very apparent that it takes much more effort for women to look presentable.
Many people have been inquiring about who I will bring to the reception. I usually tell them that no one has asked to be my escort. I suppose these people forget that I am more Chinese than not, and that bringing a date would definitely mean something. I will admit that there is a man who is dear to my heart, but I fail to feel compelled to share any part of the matter with the other 70 people participating in the celebration.
For now, I am down shifting to fourth, accelerating towards that finish line, all by myself.
10 August 2008
Must love sisters
Since 2003, when she ended her relationship with her then most awesome-est boyfriend of 2.5 years, my sister has been consistently short-term dating a lieu of guys with one thing in common--bad for her.
EHarmony only deems suitable about 75% of their matching services applicants. Payment alone is not enough. So, I quickly inquired "Have you filled out the surveys? You know, they reject people." She replied "Really? I am already talking to 11 different guys."
So, here it is. My sister, my very beloved sister, is at last acquainting with men who might be good for her. I am most happy.
And since I suppose this blog with its readership of three, one of whom is the aforementioned most awesome-est (ex)boyfriend, is as good a place as any to advertise my own sister, here is my pitch: sister of 5'7" 125 lbs. 27 years-old Chinese American heart-of-gold female attorney seeks male companion for said sister. Must be good to her and for her. Picture for picture.
My name is Chi-Ling and I approve of this message. ;)
06 August 2008
overwhelming
And now, insomniac nights.
03 August 2008
argument against the man
All of a sudden writing people off was unsound. The implications of this application on my views toward substance usage and child rearing seemed to me refreshing. And then it hit me, what this all might make of my stance on organized religion and its followers' actions.
For a single moment, my world seemed to stop.
30 July 2008
last cousin standing
i graduated from college when i was 21 and even before i turned 22, my aunts and uncles were already speculating when i would be returning for more. to their surprise, they still are. at our family gatherings, i can always hear concerned voices above the clamoring of chopsticks. "what is she doing with her life?" "is she going into law like her brother and sister?" "she's going to go get more education, right?"
lately, the sentiment has been sounding more dismal "she is going to be too old in a few years. you should tell her to just apply anywhere." even my friends are starting to nudge. "time is precious." "the next few years are critical." "what are you waiting for?"
before i finished my first year at UCLA, i promised myself that i would not attend graduate school until i was good and ready. for the past four years, i have been trying to decipher what i want to be when i grow up. to be perfectly honest, i am still not sure. that being the case, i have been feeling more urgency as of late.
i think some of my friends and family are under the notion that i do not like school. WRONG. i love school and it has thus far loved me in return. i just was not ready. after many years of casual consideration, and more recently many months of option weighing, i am rigorously preparing for the LSAT.
even i concede that it is about time that i conform with the masses. it is not easy, after all, to be the last one standing--or perhaps as some would see it, lackadaisically fence-sitting.
29 July 2008
on hydraulic lifts
after ten minutes of debriefing, i was ready to head back to the office. i got in the car, ignited the engine and pressed on the brake pedal. before i could shift the car into reverse, the car started to jolt up and down like a hydraulic elevator. my first instinct was that the car was shaking because it was about to explode. in an attempt to prevent such a thing from happening, i let go of the brake pedal and turned off the engine. but, the shaking just persisted. i was really worried about what the problem might be when one of the laborers came running from the side yard yelling "did you feel that?"
why, yes i did. and apparently, you did too.
i am such an idiot.
26 July 2008
my fiftieth post
had i opted for a more relevant title, i would have used "nothing in particular."
i will be a bridesmaid at my brother's wedding next month. the bridesmaids' dresses are black. the outfit additionally calls for a black colored shrug, notably the piece of garment my friend refers to as a "boob sweater." can you hear the enthusiasm pouring out of my keyboard?
i returned home this morning after being away for the weekend and noticed that all of the rough plumbing was installed for my bathroom. tears nearly leaked out of my eyes. i am finally seeing the light at the end of this expensive and dusty tunnel. a friend recently asked me for help with the remodel of his new place. my first reaction was "well, we aren't married, so we can't get divorced." that is me being positive about this.
tomorrow marks my first day at work of "managing" more people than the square root of my age doubled. i am scared shitless. people keep telling me that "pressure makes diamonds." and now, i will reply back "yeah, and it also pulverizes."
my schedule has been packed as of late. as it is, i am having difficulty meeting those obligations i had committed to prior to the start of the recent surge of chaos. i am anticipating life to return to some sort of normal early september. perhaps this is just wishful thinking, since i have large milestones set in early october and then again in december. nonetheless, one of my first orders of business for this coming fall will be preparing meatless chili. i realize this sounds insignificant to some of you, but i have been trying to do this for nearly a year. between now and chili day, i will have to decide on the color of my new dutch oven.
24 July 2008
last lecture
-Dr. Randy Pausch, Really Achieving Your Childhood Dreams
22 July 2008
karmic economy
- AS
17 July 2008
the kind of things people have posted on their office walls
16 July 2008
conversation
me: "sure."
[hold]
lady: "so what time you want to come in for wax?"
me: "is 4:30 okay?"
lady: "yeah. 4:30 okay."
vietnamese ladies are great.
14 July 2008
to everyday wake naturally
yet, as of late, i have been having difficulty living by my own doctrine. in fact, it would be more accurate to say that i have been all together ignoring the notion of alarm free living. i have had all of three "natural" mornings in the last 90 days. it is quite pathetic.
so as i set my alarm tonight, i take a renewed commitment to abuelita living--early to bed, early to rise. and hopefully, just hopefully, i wake tomorrow with enough time to disable that awful alarm patiently waiting to disturb my morning's peace.
11 July 2008
the voices in my head
"pain is weakness leaving the body."
"do or do not. there is no try."
"that is but a statistical anomaly."
"this too shall pass."
"c'est la vie."
10 July 2008
live dangerously
07 July 2008
italian yogurt
05 July 2008
nostalgia
i am a bit embarrassed to admit that the primary focus of the latter half of that journal is my first "real" boyfriend. reading back, i cannot but feel that assigning such a title to this young man may be a bit misleading. we dated for all of two months, i do not recall being "in love" with him, and if i remember correctly, we broke up over his love for world of warcraft.
for some reason or the other, my last entry in this particular journal was a long list of the sweetest things this boy had done for me. i wrote it less than two weeks after we had broken up. i am pleased to see that my 20 year old apparently heart broken self could find enough sensibility to recount the happy memories.
below are portions of my old writings, recording some of my sweetest boyfriend memories. the he's are kept purposely anonymous to preserve the privacy of those who may be embarrassed by this would-be public outing of closet romantics.
"i doodle when i am bored and i bore very easily. tulips had just come into season, and so they were a frequent subject of my latest notebook artwork. a week or so after he had commented on one of my floral sketches, i received a photo of three red tulips with a note "tulips for my two lips." later that week, a small potted plant of beautiful red tulips magically appeared outside my front door in the hands of a grinning young man. i never told him that tulips just so happen to be my favorite flowers."
"for the first time in my life, i strained prunes through a mesh sieve in order to test a lower fat chocolate chip cookie recipe. luckily, they turned out well. while i was cleaning the large mess i had made, he walked into the kitchen with a foil heart, constructed from what was used to line the cookie sheets, clothes pinned to his t-shirt. for some particular reason, i was very moved by this. so much so, my joyful expression seemed to make him uneasy. the gesture was sweet and simple, priceless really."
"he gave me a $2 bill folded into two hearts for valentine's day. he explained that years ago, his grandfather had given him a two dollar bill, which he still, to this day, keepsakes in his wallet. he said that $2 bills mean a lot to him for that reason, and he added that he hoped that they may one day mean something between the two of us."
the tulips wilted. i never made those chocolate chip cookies again. and i have no clue where that $2 bill is. in fact, i am happily without a he in my life. but the presence of these memories remind me that love can be grand, and that moments, though ephemeral in nature, can live on forever in our nostalgic minds.
03 July 2008
words
visceral: prompted by natural tendency or impulse
usurious: greatly exceeding bounds of reason or moderation
loquacious: very talkative
bespoke: custom made
tawdry: gaudy and cheap in nature or appearance
flaneur: an aimless idler
28 June 2008
there is no try
earlier today, i decided to "do not."
after this morning's class, i spoke to the studio owner about what had to do be done. i seriously contemplated, and even for an hour of two tried to mentally prepare, for the four consecutive days of doubles (two classes in one day) i needed do in order to "successfully" complete the challenge. and then the thought hit me, everything within reason.
in this great month of june, i have battled through a three day spout of the stomach flu, undergone a portion of the most emotionally draining house remodeling process i ever thought possible and decided to revitalize my aspirations for graduate school studies. my bikram yoga 30 day challenge has been most helpful in dealing with the latter two situations. i am most grateful.
i am finishing out the remaining three days of my challenge by attending class once a day. when all is said and done, i will have completed 26 classes in 30 days. and i think that is PRETTY DARN AWESOME.
anyone who is up for seeing me smile throughout my 26th class is welcome to join me at south pasadena bikram yoga at 430 pm. there is no try. ;)
26 June 2008
combo pizza
when i arrived on the premise earlier today, there were already three lines of 7 patrons each waiting to order. after reviewing the demographic of my three options, i decided to stand in the line consisting entirely of individual male parties. though the other lines consisted of just about the same number of bodies, i reasoned that mothers with children and women in general were more likely to have larger and more complex orders.
think i am sexist? how many men do you know order the hand dipped chocolate covered vanilla ice cream bar to go along with their slice of combo pizza?
25 June 2008
this is going to sound odd ...
NO WONDER WHY I AM SO WISHY-WASHY.
it explains so so much.
17 June 2008
it is like this
PLAIN AND SIMPLE
you are a sharp cat
if you wake up 15 years from now
not at the TOP
of some reasonably respectable (in an invisible hand sense)
field of human endeavour
you will REALLY find it hard to reconcile
because you will see IDIOTS all around you
in positions of power and influence
SIMPLY because they had the humility and courage
to discard myriad choices and bet on one
you should really set up that committee
get rigorous about this
and get serious
and COMPETE
there are enough bad people in this world to make it a rotten place
don't waste your gifts by not even ENTERING the battlefield
day sixteen
the other day, while complaining about the constant soreness that i am experiencing, my guy friend reminds me that "pain is weakness leaving my body." all i had to say to that was "i can hardly raise my arms and that's the best bullshit you could come up with?" these past few days though, during certain postures (e.g. awkward, triangle, camel) when i really feel like my body is about to give way, or yesterday when i nearly broke out in a well of tears, i cling onto this "weakness leaving body" theory and somehow manage to keep my shit together.
more than anything else, i have learned from this challenge that most things are in the mind. the human body has an amazing capacity, but the brain has a lot of hangups. it is true that fear and pain prevent us from over exertion and death, but most of us err on the side of over caution all too often.
so, now equipped with all of these realizations, i am planning to extrapolate this sentiment into the many other areas of my life that need overhauls. and i hope what keeps me diligent and sane during this process is all of the yoga i am planning to integrate into this PAINful awakening.
16 June 2008
board of directors
CKP: previous employer and family friend; mid 40s entrepreneur
YCC: cousin and confidante; mid 30s fortune 500 marketing manager
CYS: college roommate; mid 20s graduate student
RCF: friend; mid 30s entrepreneur
all right, apparently i have a vacancy in this theoretical plan. should probably balance out the team with a male in the final spot.
13 June 2008
doubles
and because i have been generally crazy busy with life, i have already missed two days of my 30 day run. the 30 day challenge stipulates that one does yoga 30 times in 30 days, although it is meant in the spirit of daily practice.
in order to make up one of my two missed classes last week, i decided to attempt back to back yoga classes this past wednesday. I NEARLY DIED. all right, i concede that near death is a bit of an exaggeration. there were times during the second session i was convinced that i would be better off becoming unconscious. i was not so lucky.
during the final breathing exercise of that day, i felt the bottom of my feet, ankles and calves quickly tighten. i figured i was about five seconds from a severe muscle cramp so i purposely fell out of the posture. shortly after, the whole room was lying in savasana, dead body pose.
the first few days of the challenge, i found myself proactively searching for excuses to be elsewhere. after much encouragement from family, friends, coworkers and instructors, i am happy to say that i have completed six classes in the past five days. i am taking this lovely day off. and maybe, just maybe, i will be up for another double session this sunday morning.
namaste.
09 June 2008
"marry me"
my brother's wedding is set for the end of august. i am looking forward to the multi-city festivities, but dreading the infamous hot and humid southern summers (no pun intended). for those wondering, the ceremony will be held in baton rouge, with a reception in some small town in mississippi, one that is apparently close enough to the louisianian destination. another reception will be held in los angeles for those family and friends who find the west coast a more geographically desirable destination.
my "qing ai de gege" (translation: dearest brother), as i have been referring to him as of late, has graciously offered both my sister and me five guest slots each. i found this endearing, but quite puzzling since i wonder why he would assume that i would have any inclination to submit any of my own friends to a night of awkward chopstick clanging and unpredictable toasts. did i mention they will NOT be serving alcohol?
and then last week, i was overcome with this awesome vision involving my family and the electric slide, choreographed and rehearsed. and although the details are still in the works, i am starting to think that i may just have to hand these invites out to the highest bidders.
can you see it now? my mom, sister and i, all in our qipaos, grapevining left, then right, walking back, rocking forward ...
*bopping shoulder chuckle* oh the hotness!
07 June 2008
spoken like a "terribly old" fellow
- AS
05 June 2008
hopes and dreams
i know this probably does not make any sense to anyone else, but i am writing this to remind ME.
03 June 2008
day two
the internet has been most uncooperative at work the past two days. they identified a virus within the location where i work and have yet to isolate the problem. hence, the entire office's internet has been severely restricted. five minutes of external site access shuts down all web functions for five to ten minutes. these periods of stalemate have made completing job tasks most frustrating, but have done wonders for my hydration levels. i am probably on my eighth 16 ounce cup of water.
i hope my hydration pays off and i don't cramp up today as i did yesterday. i never knew one could develop a muscle cramp just below the chest. but yesterday's bikram class showed me the light. so now i know, yes you can cramp there, and at your calves and at every one of your toes, and at the arch of your foot. worse yet, you can even cramp right at the hip, when you are squatting so low for so long you think any second that particular joint is just going to disassemble itself.
02 June 2008
andy and randy
during my cousin andy's wedding ceremony this past saturday, the reverend teased that he was relieved to see that the rings had indeed made it. he cited his brief encounter with randy, the best man, as the reason for his concern. randy gave the audience his infamous "i have no recollection of the time in question" look.
randy is the only guy i know whose idea of a "grilled" cheese sandwich involves microwave usage. he is also the only guy i know who has made an open face "grilled" cheese sandwich using a skillet, cheese side down.
it's obvious, though, after having spent many a hours chatting with the guy, that he means well and really has got my cousin's back. and that's why, every so often, i dearly miss the company of this odd couple.
28 May 2008
19 May 2008
traits
generous
uber-intelligent
communicative
driven
intuitive
strong
athletic
tolerant
well-versed
cultured
talented
beautiful
affectionate
funny.
27 April 2008
27 random thoughts
an alternate meaning for lousy is "infested with lice."
the seattle public library is everything i thought it would be and more.
i start a new job on the first of may.
as of last wednesday, wooden chess sets are 50% off at brookstone.
$140 is what it cost for me to fly from burbank to SLC and back.
madonna's new album debuts tuesday.
until 2007, the US banned the import of alphonsos for 18 years.
my parents are attending two weddings next month.
the capilano bridge in vancouver was not worth the $20+ entry fee.
my new job will be located in alhambra, three miles from my house.
prince, formerly the artist formerly known as prince, played at coachella.
park city's sales tax is 6.3% for clothing purchases.
my parents are purchasing a residential property in alhambra.
oakley offers asian fit sunglasses.
having lunch with quoc was the highlight of my past work week.
recently, i have been having regular cravings for vegetarian food.
mother's day is may 11.
i want to learn tai chi chuan.
costco currently has a special on one of their foam mattresses.
america's test kitchen is downright awesome.
my brother is getting married this coming august.
founding by joseph ellis will be the next book i start to read.
my parents picked up a 36" range hood in salt lake city this past weekend.
city of hope's underwear affair is taking place on august 2, 2008.
i have not spoken to joel for more than three weeks now.
maytag, whirlpool and jenn-air are owned by the same corporation.
16 April 2008
my three dollars
NOW THAT IS DOWN RIGHT IMPRESSIVE!
08 April 2008
whiskey tango foxtrot
on a high note, i finally got around to filing my federal and state income taxes. it is a shame that my california return totalled all of $3. i paid $9.95 to e-file too. this whole system blows my brain sometimes.
whiskey tango foxtrot, mate?
07 April 2008
lunch money
with tax day on the horizon, i am adhering to the strict budget i created a few months ago with a renewed sense of urgency. and so, i have a made it a point to have a majority of home brought or company sponsored lunches during the work week.
this phenomenon is actually an exciting one, since i can spend the time i save from food transit to do things that i enjoy, like calculate my federal income taxes or catch up on my journal writing or read one of the many books i attempting to finish.
03 April 2008
because it is just too funny not to share
GE: I got it mom. I opened it and it looks beautiful. Thanks.
MA: Have a good time with Summary. can I have one room at your house? What is the answer from Summary?
GE: Mom, Her name is Summer. I talked to her about it, and she's okay with you and dad living with us when you get too old and need help. As long as you guys respect our lifestyles and the way we manage our home. That's all.
MA: I feel better now.
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the 'it' my brother speaks of in the first part of the thread is the engagement ring he recently purchased. i am happy for him/them.
25 March 2008
something warm please
i neglected to prepare oatmeal for breakfast this morning. so, right around 10 am, i started to feel hungry. dreading the prospects of yet another day of pre-packaged lunch from starbucks, a quick and convenient choice i have defaulted to for the past consecutive four work days, i began considering the endless options of food i might have. the list runs endless here in LA--japanese curry, korean tofu, chinese dim sum, mexican tamales--thoughts of all of this warm goodness had my mouth watering.
as i am coordinating my lunch plans, a few minutes after 11 am, i am asked to help with a task that delays my fooding for another hour. and because i am just famished by the time i can leave to purchase nourishment, i again walked up the street to the neighboring starbucks i oh so wanted to avoid earlier in the day. turkey avocado club, that's all the hotness i got out of this day's lunch.
21 March 2008
enough to change
for many of you who do not follow Taiwanese politics, that statement hardly means anything. but for the few who do, it reveals so much.
that single comment will tell you with 95% confidence that my family is from Northern Taiwan, most likely from the city of Taipei. it discloses part of my family history. but above all else, that single comment announces, without equivocation, my political views and alliances.
saturday, the coming night hours on this side of the Pacific, marks the presidential election in my country of origin. much is on the line, and i cannot but feel that a certain candidate must win. so, tonight as i am unwinding with my usual Friday night routine, i will be wondering, as my parents watch with much anticipation, if enough is really enough.
20 March 2008
chan
jas: "from my dad. he's cantonese american."
car: "oh really. what is your mom?"
jas: "full blood salvadorian."
car: "wow. how did they meet?"
jas: "at a liquor store."
(much laughter)
car: "really?"
jas: "yep."
car: "i guess they had a common interest."
jas: "my dad owned a liquor store and my mom went there to buy things."
car: "oh really. like milk?"
jas: "honestly, i don't want to know."
12 March 2008
math tutoring and self help books
if only we could all be as smart as google algorithms.
06 March 2008
c wu
thirty minutes ago, i had this exchange with mr. wu.
c wu: you don't need to be a genius from ucla to do this correctly.
c wa: yeah, you could probably teach a monkey to do it.
c wu: you could teach a RETARDED monkey to do it correctly.
c wa: man, that's harsh. i have never heard mention of a retarded monkey.
i started laughing as i was walking out. AND, for the first time ever, john actually waved bye to me as i exited.
04 March 2008
took the words right out of my mouth
(Warren Buffet on government intervention plans for the current housing market)
"QUICK: Any of the intervention plans we've seen from the government strike you as being a good idea?
BUFFETT: Well, that -- I haven't seen the details on many of them, but I think it's very hard to start interfering with markets without having a whole lot of unintended consequences."
03 March 2008
coffee talk
chi: "no. i don't drink coffee."
looking confounded and frustrated, supervisor walks away. subordinate snickers. five seconds later, supervisor returns to subordinate's cubicle area.
super: "you know it's not about the coffee, right? you should go to these kinds of things."
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i really like my new supervisor. i can't understand him half of the time, and he has no idea where i am coming from. but three weeks ago, after months of mild intimidation and minor offenses, i finally figured out that he really does mean well.
25 February 2008
arts and crafts
it would be untrue to say that i have been "arting and crafting" for an entire two weeks. i have, however, spent much of my time at the office creating dividers, organizing binders and scanning plans. i do not mind the work, but if it continues on for too much longer, i may actually decide to find "real" purpose.
20 February 2008
tadasana: tree pose
more tall, more peaceful, more content, more free.
more breath, more energy and so, MORE CHI.
19 February 2008
i do not like bacon
unfortunately, i am not a fan of bacon. and it is ironic, considering all of the architects and engineers in this building, that the cafe's kitchen exhaust fan fails to route correctly out of the building.
meanwhile, every morning, continuing into the afternoon, i smell of BACON!
14 February 2008
single awareness day
i suppose i could be not single and celebrating this holiday. i have perhaps been doing just that for the past five years. this year, though, i am single on SAD.
it's a complicated and lengthy story, one many probably want to know, but i shall reserve the details of my recent breakup for a less public setting.
here is the funny thing about relationships in light of this valentine's day business. i have never received flowers on this particular day of the year. and i have never wanted to. but this year, the absence of flowers serves as a constant reminder that there is no one to NOT receive flowers from.
03 February 2008
conversation with my sister
"cool."
"uh, not really?"
"why?"
"he's nineteen, and a hawthorne police officer."
"oh. does he know what you do and how old you are?"
"he knew what i did, but not how old i was."
"so, are you going to go out with him?"
"no."
"why not?
"what do i have to say to a nineteen year old?"
"oh, okay. i guess people don't date for fun when they meet at church."
29 January 2008
the big three-zero
after prompting from my sister, my dad called my mom as she was about to leave the office. my mom told me the conversation started with him proclaiming "happy marriage." it might just be the first time my dad has ever verbally expressed something of the sort on a wedding anniversary date, or really any date for that matter. i think the gesture was sweet, albeit sad and funny at the same time.
he declared that he wanted to take my mom to eat pho. i gather that not many of you know this about my mother, but she does not like pho. and so, i am not sure why my dad would propose such a thing. he claims ignorance, which i do not doubt. it is, again, a bit sad that he did not know better.
i left them earlier tonight to get away from their bickering. and as i walked out the door, i thought to myself, "maybe marriage doesn't suit some people. maybe it doesn't suit youngest daugthers of people like them."
23 January 2008
more money, more money, MORE MO-NEY, more problems?
it is in these types of financial times that i always wish i had more money saved. as of late, i have been trying to hoard money more. some people might call it "saving money," but there's a zealousness about my recent spending (or rather not spending) that i consider it hoarding money. i've been reading blogs like mymoneyblog.com, and i constantly think about the fact that one dollar saved is like two dollars earned. combine that theory with how much i dislike parts of my job, and it's surprising that i spend any money at all.
i've been waiting for a promotion that i had been promised a few months ago. this is most annoying as i have foregone a few thousand dollars in compensation in the time passed. i can't say i regret turning down the higher salary job offer for my current position, but as the wait drags on, i can't but help thinking about the what-ifs.
there really is no use in thinking. it's done, and i do like this job more than my last. that's gotta be a little bit priceless. hahahaha. and so, i just think to myself that i'll probably always want a little more money. enough is always a zero or two away, eh?
02 January 2008
happy everything
to all three of you who read this blog, happy everything. i wish for you and yours bliss and good health throughout the new year.
The take of a Chinese American tween living in Los Angeles